Life As We Know It

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Letting go of a red ballon is like a symbolic farewell to the certain part of the past.

"不再是十八廿二的好處之一是,將憂鬱自我排解的能力大大提升。如果我的內心確實比從前的那個我變得溫柔,那多半是因為終於開始明白,世上沒有人虧欠你什麼,你能愛多少就得著多少,沒人身上沒長刺,也沒有人不犯錯,學不會原諒,難以張開雙臂去擁抱生命,最後局限的是自己的心。他人的溫柔沒錢可買。”


“記得當年有人對我說:你要記住,遇到好人係bonus。這句說話,我一記記了十年。

這是我價值觀的核心:你必須相信美善。

儘管這樣,總還有黑暗,有些人覺得聰明的做法是「習慣」,因為這是生命常態;但我傾向覺得你必須保護自己心裡的小小的苗,有所為有所不為。有時未必是對抗,尤其你漸漸會明白對抗其實害人害己,也絕對不是叫你妥協……那是一種很微妙很難言明的處理方法,但你一定能摸索出來,只要你守護著那棵心裡的幼苗。”

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Transcendence

I don’t know why, for some reason, my spirit has been high these days, perhaps it has to deal with lesser work, perhaps it  has to deal with overcoming the darkest period, or a big setback, somehow you realise that you don’t have to hold onto things so dearly, for you don’t need work to validate your presence.  

or you have been through a  traumatising moment, you just learn to the philosophy of  taking it easy.  

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